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Friends Become Family

I have always felt so much love and support in every aspect of my life. They say that your friends are the family you get to choose, and I am so lucky I chose the best sister in the world. Read More

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5,000 Words about My Website

This is the report that I submitted to judges at the Future Problem Solving International Competition. The document goes into depth about every action I took to complete this project.   Area of Concern: My older sister, Blair, was diagnosed with Sanfilippo Syndrome at age six. Sanfilippo, also… Read More

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Father’s Day

Rebecca is big sister to 10-year-old Amanda who suffers from a rare form of epilepsy. The family travels far from home with assistance from Miracle Flights, the nation’s leading nonprofit flight organization, to reach the specialized care she needs to get well. Read More

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My Sister’s Funeral

I always knew that without a cure, my sister’s time with us would be limited. And with this inevitable loss of my sweet Blair, there would be a funeral. While our family always aimed to think positively about Blair’s illness, this is the only detail about the end of her life that came to my mind often in the years before her passing. Read More

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One Year of The B.L.A.I.R. Connection

Today, May 26th, marks one year since I launched The B.L.A.I.R. Connection. I’ve been overwhelmed by the support for the website, with over 5,000 visitors. I am also so grateful for the siblings who have contributed to the website in any way. Read More

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Henry & Blair

Yesterday, the Cure Sanfilippo Foundation launched an awareness campaign about my dog, Henry, and his relationship with Blair. My sister, Blair, and Henry were best friends and he misses her so much ever since she passed away due to Sanfilippo in 2017. Learn more about their one of a kind bond in this video and share to raise awareness for Sanfilippo Syndrome. Read More

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Bereaved Siblings & Mental Health

May is Mental Health Month. I recently found several statistics about siblings of the terminally ill and their mental health that further proves the need for sibling support programs. 5-8% of children have lost a sibling. Although each of these siblings goes through a unique set of challenges, one common factor is affected... their mental health. Read More

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Cure Sanfilippo Foundation Q&A

Recently, I had the opportunity to be interviewed by the President of the Cure Sanfilippo Foundation, Glenn O'Neill. The foundation raises funds to find a cure for the illness that my sister had. This article is very well written and I'm so thankful for the platform they've given me to raise awareness for siblings' challenges. Read More

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The Be You Collection

The goal of collections is to provide siblings an easy way to contribute to the website and make them think about their situation in a new and unique way. Siblings of children with terminal illnesses can often feel as if they are defined by their brother or sister’s experiences. The Be You Collection aims to emphasize the individual traits and interests of siblings who are often overlooked. Read More

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Sibling Bond Podcast

The following podcast was published by Courageous Parents Network, a destination created by parents, for parents, to support, guide and strengthen families as they care for a seriously ill child. CPN has several blogs about siblings and this podcast includes two siblings talking about having a brother affected by Cerebral Palsy. Read More

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The Six Days I Miss You The Most

Today marks two years since you went to heaven. That number doesn’t seem real to me. It feels like just last night I was reading you “Goodnight Moon” as you drifted off to sleep. At the same time, that feels like forever ago. That’s why days like this are strange. I feel a mixture of sadness and comfort. Anger and sentimentality. All I know is that I miss you. I miss you every day, but certain days more than others. Read More

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Patient Worthy Partnership

I am excited to announce that The B.L.A.I.R. Connection has recently partnered with Patient Worthy. Patient Worthy is a rare disease news website that posts ten new articles each day. We have partnered in a combined effort to raise awareness for rare diseases and siblings' challenges. Read More

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Inspired – the story of a sibling from Portugal

Hello, my name is Sofia and I'm 10 years old. I'm from Portugal and I'm learning English. I have a sister named Joana, she is 15 years old and suffers from a rare disease called Sanfilippo syndrome. My favorite place to go with her is the beach, especially in the summer, because we spend the whole day there and days are sooo long in summer! Read More

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Like a Rock in Your Pocket

Looking at the world of rare diseases and serious illnesses in children, so much of the focus jumps to the child with the diagnosis, and then to the parents. This isn’t intentional, it’s just the way it seems to work. Bit by bit, it’s easy for siblings to slip into the sidelines, away from the “front and center” of the attention that comes with a difficult diagnosis. Read More

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Go Higher

One gene One cell One little mishap One gone wrong None goes well The disease The struggle Come together Make their lives For the better A very sticky situation Has been placed on our own selves This is the rare redirection That destroys our sibling’s health Read More

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Cura MSD – the story of a sibling from Spain

Soy Jan Ballbè Perés y en casa vivimos mi madre, su marido, los dos hijos de su marido, los tres que somos hijos de mi madre y la Ivet la niña que tuvieron mi madre y su marido. Recuerdo perfectamente el dia de reyes de hace unos cuatro años… Read More

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How is Ellie?

This piece is by Stefanie Boyce, mother of Ellie, Jayden, & Brooklyn. Jayden & Brooklyn passed away due to Sanfilippo Syndrome and Ellie is six years old, unaffected, and coping with the loss of her brother and sister. Your face changes when you ask me how Ellie is doing. I’m not sure if it’s because she’s so young, because it’s the easiest question to ask out of a sea of difficult ones, or because you are generally curious. How does a little six-year-old as bright and full of life as Ellie handle her brother and sister dying? Read More

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Grey’s Presentation on Sibling Support

On Monday, February 4th, I had the opportunity to speak in front of doctors, scientists, and lysosomal disease families about sibling support. In the presentation, I share more about my journey as a sibling and my inspiration to start this website. Additionally, I go into depth about current sibling support… Read More

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Siblings: The Unsung Heroes

If you attend a conference of rare disease families, you might not even notice that many of those who are helping out with all aspects of making sure that everything is running smoothly are the siblings of those who have rare diseases, or the siblings of their parents. This doesn’t… Read More

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The Be Positive Collection

Welcome to the newest addition to The B.L.A.I.R. Connection website, the “Be Positive” Collection. I am hoping to publish more collections in the future with different themed questions for siblings to answer. This collection aims to emphasize the positive aspect of a child’s relationship with their terminally ill… Read More

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Super Dog

Grown from pure energy, clipped claws scraping on loose rocks, and damp nose searching for treats is Poppy: a compact and sleek black Labrador. Family dog and partner in outdoor exploration, the worst she could ever do is lick you, and she will if you let her. An… Read More

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National Caregiver Month

As November, which is National Caregiver Month, is coming to an end, I’d like to share this guest blog post written by one of Blair’s old caregivers. -Grey   I met Blair Chapin in January of 2015. I began to love Blair Chapin in January of 2015. I… Read More

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About “The B.L.A.I.R. Connection”

The B.L.A.I.R. Connection is a support website for siblings of terminally ill children. I started this website in April of 2018, but it had already been in the making for almost a year. The Idea In the months after my sister passed away, I realized how lucky I was to… Read More

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Lives lived: Elisa Lorraine Linton

This passage is from an article in The Globe and Mail. It is written by Jessica Mason, whose sister, Elisa, passed away due to Sanfilippo Syndrome.   My sister Elisa was in a hurry to come into this world. My dad ran two red lights getting her to the… Read More

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11.12.07

I peered over the sloping back of the couch, vision divided between peacock patterned fabric and white doorway. My mother blindly cupped his greasy cheek in her prematurely wrinkled hand. She saw past so much. “Mister Ben Siedmannn, can you say mama? I’m your ma…? Ma!”… Read More

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My Brother Alex

My name is Jax Koch and I have a special needs brother with Sanfilippo Syndrome. His name is Alex. We live outside of Nashville, Tennessee. He was diagnosed when he was 10 years old in 2013. He just turned 15 this March. He is my only sibling. He… Read More

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Saving Carter

This is Sophia. Her little brother, Carter, has Sanfilippo Syndrome. Their family has been working to fund a cure to save Carter. Their campaign, Saving Carter, aims to raise $1,000,000 in one month. They have three days left to reach their goal. Please donate or share to give… Read More

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Jealousy

Jealousy. It’s a feeling that we, as the siblings of those who are terminally ill, must hide… yet we go through it all the time. When your sibling is diagnosed, you become second. Your parents stop checking your homework, what TV shows you’re watching, who your friends are. Read More

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National Cancer Survivor Day

Although today is about celebrating cancer survival, it is hard not to look back on the lives that cancer has taken. Between now and the last time we celebrated National Cancer Survivor Day, 90,000 children have lost their lives to cancer throughout world. That is a fact that held little… Read More

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Thankful

To the siblings of terminally ill children, You are loved no less, and you are trusted just that much more. You are independent and strong because you have to be. You have a special gift of communicating, a special gift of unconditional love. You are full… Read More